In 1985 my parents gave me a book for Christmas by Ardeth Greene Kapp entitled Echoes From The Prairies. This book has been across the continent with me twice as there are a few poems and passages that have touched me in it. The author writes of her father sharing the following poem, I would like to share it here…
An old man, going a lone highway,
Came at the evening, cold and gray,
To a chasm, vast and deep and wide,
Through which was flowing a sullen tide,
The old man crossed in the twilight dim,
The sullen stream had no fear for him,
But he turned when safe on the other side
And built a bridge to span the tide.
“Old man,” said a fellow pilgrim near,
“You are wasting strength with building here;
You journey will end wih the ending day;
You never again will pass this way;
You have crossed the chasm, deep and wide-
Why build you the bridge at eventide:”
The builder lifted his old gray head;
“Good friend, in the path I have come.” he said.
“There followeth after me today
A youth whose feet must pass this way.
This chasm that has been naught to me.
To that fair-haired youth may a pitfall be.
He, too, must cross in the twilight dim’
Good friend, I am building the bridge for him.
I have often thought of this poem when I question trials in the lives of good people. The greatest trials in my parents lives have been the greatest lessons in faith in my life. Their example, that has been the most evident in the most difficult of times for them, has been what carried me through many of my greatest trials. The same is true of others whom I have the deepest of respect for and have learned the greatest lessons of strength and faith…it has been because of their testimony, their strength, their example I have gained strength in my own life.
In the scriptures, stories of pioneers crossing the plains, family history…it is their darkest days, their endurance to the end that has inspired generations to come. The above poem (written by Will Allen Dromgool, “The Bridge Builder”) reminds me to look for the bridges others have built and to look for where I can build bridges for others.
This morning after work I was watching Super Soul Sunday and Oprah had Amanda Lingren, a young woman on who lost both of her legs below the knee to Meningitis. She spoke of warnings or “preparation” she had in the months before she became sick. She had always known she was meant for great things, and that those great things would require huge difficulties in her life. She has gone on to inspire and change the lives of thousands of others. Her life is on a different vibration and course than it ever would have been if she didn’t face her greatest trials. Thousands of lives wouldn’t be saved and inspired and lived to the fullest if Amanda hadn’t endured her almost unbearable circumstances.
I think of the thousands of lives that are changed, the children that are saved from harm because of advocates such as Elizabeth Smart and Alicia Kozakiewicz or John Walsh. All endured horrifying experiences but were able to take the changed course of their lives and inspire, protect, build bridges for others. Whether it is an example from the scriptures thousands of years ago or from a loved one that is in the refiner’s fire they had to make the difficult journey of their lowest times to be the strong witness of faith and endurance another may need to survive their darkest days.